Relationships of duality
Presence of a sole mate is essential for life. Everyone wants
to have such an interchange in expression of thoughts which would include mutual
understanding, support and help, in which not mere words would be important but
gestures, glances, facial expressions, style and intonation, where words and
reguests would be answered with required tact. Feeling of tranquility and
protection, fruitful collaboration, efforts and work properly estimated – all
this can be real.
People who understand each other without any words, from a
glance are two parts of one whole. Such partners know what is necessary to do
for the other one, in which way to help, they find an appropriate ioke to ease
tension and understand everything, always support, never hurt and never take
offense.
When beside one another, they find themselves strong, brave
in giving expression of their feelings, see one another as human, tender and
thoughtful people. Duals attract with their enigma. They are inconceivable in
their spiritual depth, they even envy themselves to their feeling of harmony,
but all the same time hide it because of fear, as perception of such
relationship is very rare as a rule, mainly because of complete psychological
difference.
As a person beside can help or easily do things which no
matter how hard you try don’t turn out to be well done. The dual explains
phenomenon throught unusual world outlook, showing external world from another
(and because of that interesting) angle, notices things which you simply take no
notice of. He/she feels need in your gifts and capacities and by this gives you
the opportunity to realize yourself. The dual isn’t perseive as an idol but as
an important person.
That’s the way they complement each other. When your dual
is present you find yourself stronger, more assured, skilful and safe. Things
done by one of the duals are percepted by the other one as a performanceof rare
assets. Constant amasement and approval urge emotionally, wish to be active
emerges.
Self-esteem grows in such a relationship, one becomes
conscious for the other people. The personality developes astonishingly rapidly
in spiritual, moral and volitional planes.
Partners satiate one another with thoughts and feelings,
ideas and attitude towards interests and values. That shows itself not only in
communication but in behavior and acts. They “feed” one another with stamina
and reduce mental fatigue. Owing to the dual a person becames calm and satisfied
as he/she is understood, regarded and exactly what he/she needs. Interactions
with your dual allows you to be not in need to adjust to your partner like in
other relations. Dual accepts you as you are, in fact, he loves and esteems you
for that. You feel inner freedom and independence. None of the pair presses,
limits or restricts but assist to the other one’s expression of the feelings.
By the way, the promoter has no wish to teach or perfect. The process happens
automatically and willingly.
Dual relationship futher understanding, the partners persept
words, requests and questions correctly. The curiosity in the opposition defines
interest in one another, thus it always attracts in communication.
Partners practically don’t argue but if misunderstanding do
happen it dissapears imperceptibly. In most cases it happens at the first stages
of communication when one does not know neither oneself nor his/her partner. If
a partner is in low spirits and starts to grumble the dual will not take it on
his/her account and shortly one of them will be complaining and the other will
be consoling. They will not spoil each other moods, in fact, the more they will
communicate the more tranquil and balanced they’ll be.
The relationship may be businesslike or playful but never
wicked or agressive. People behave freely and easily, calmly, often impulsively,
spontaneously.
Duals don’t thrust themselves upon one another, they
don’t try to show off, they behave naturally and when they are silent it’s
not a suspensive silent, partners simply undastand one another without words.
It’s easy and pleasant to communicate with your dual, it is always
interesting, comfortable.
If they communicate constantly their mental state balance,
the organism works in coordination, they supply each other with energy and that
increase life stamina. They shun diseases which begin from mentality on which
general state as well as function of organizm depend. Duals who live together
have staple immunity system.
Partners become healthier, feel flush of energy and strength,
become calmer, balanced, feel freely and easily as if in their childhood. Jokes
don’t offend as there exists perception of their own humor, the other partner
jones even more jokes, fun goes on.
Duals are never bored with one another, moreover, as time
passes they grow even more fond of each other. Even if at the begining of their
communication they were not feeling some chemistry as they interact more
interest and fascination appears which develop into strong feeling. The more
they learn and know each other the more they are captured, they assist to each
other development, thrust to one another grows no matter what. The magnetic
effect becomes obwious when partners do not see each other for a while.
When one has a dual partner he/she is liberated, open for the
exeption of internal information, he is not affraid of internal information, he
is not affraid of showing oneself, moreover, he craves it.
Dual relationship is not only pleasant but also complicated.
Although extreemes are attracted, these people are psychologically different so
should check every word and deed as they are percepted right away without any
analyses. Not mere words are important in yhr interaction but rather the ability
to give confidence, and calmness to show loyalty that’s why intonation and
assured words voice are of utmost importance. Not appropriate intonation and
agitated or irritated tone hinders both. Thus the relationship are open and
fragile, people are most sensitive in this kind of interaction, partners have to
behave carefuly, in order not to injure harmonious relationship.
For the succesful development of relations firstlyyou have to
be interested in dual’s personality, you should have the ability penetrate,
listenand understand. Secondly,it is important when the partners have share the
same interests, life goals or common affair.
At the begining of life together exists a thought that the
partner knows everything and is able to do everything but later it becomes clear
what the complementary is able to do and what’s not.
That’s why after a period of adorement may come a period of
frustration.
Sometimes it’s difficult to see the partner’s point of
view because of different vision of the same situation and when each partner
keeps to his vision it may seem that one of them is counteracting the other one,
although it is not so in reality. In such situationsin communication partners
observe certain distance in order to protect ones personality. Thus to maintain
harmony thoughtful, attentive attitude, understanding dual’s needs are
necessary, each should excuse weeknesses, shouldn’t take offence because of
temporary misunderstandings.
At the begining of their aquiantance the relationship may be
tense when partner’s wishes do not coincide, sometimes relations may be even
crumble at this stage. The more the duals are together the more they have in
common the stronger their relationship is, as the relationship envolve they
bring interest, harmony and surprise with new pleasant discoveries, astonish
with endless creative representations,assist to culture of communication and
perfection of the partners as there is no limits in implementing gifts, talants
and skills when in the state of mental suplimentation natural essense of person
opens complitely.
Duals may do the the same thing but their inner motivation
will be different. Doing of the work is accompanied with a play and this
inspires. Permanent and necessaryapproval urges, sets on emotionally. They act
agreeably, stimulating and balancing one another, changing naturaly their .
initiative and that makes any work more effective and operative. To a stranger
it may seem that everything is done without any special effort. It is realily
more easy to work together for duals then separately.
And as any organism, which is developed normally only then,
when it is maintained, in dual relations one partner maintains the other and
then the progress is.
Such relations are irreplaceable in competition or at a
dangerous surrounding, they are the bestl for creation of family. The dual
family has the relevant value for children, where relations of their parents are
positively influenced on them. At high culture of communication it is the most
favourable and indispensable relations for cooperation, friendship an of course
for family. Moreover it is only one kind of relationships which is suitable for
family.
The duality energetically sates and equilibrates, it is an
indispensable condition not only for successful mental, but also for physical
operation of an organism. Only in dual relations there is a full mental,
physical and intimal-sex compatibility. Here there are no cold men and frigid
women, the marital partners long remain sexly fissile and haul a maxima of
pleasure from one another. The duality is not a luxury, it is a biotic
necessity.
The more familiar duals there are the more easy to
communicate with the people of other types.
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